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Good people. Clear boundaries.
Community Guidelines. Effective September 17, 2026.
Respect is the starting point
Respect consent and boundaries. No harassment, threats, hate, discrimination, sexual violence, sexual coercion, or non-consensual sexual content or activity. No child sexual exploitation or abuse in any form, including child sexual abuse material (CSAM) — it is never tolerated and is reported to authorities. No sexually explicit profile content, human trafficking, sex trafficking, or sexual exploitation. A match or a date is never consent to anything else. See our Acceptable Use Policy for the complete list of prohibited conduct.
Be who you say you are
Use recent photos of yourself and accurate profile information. No impersonation, scams, requests for money, cryptocurrency or investment schemes, or commercial solicitation. This community is strictly 18+. Report suspected underage accounts.
Make plans with care
Choose public places. Communicate changes. Legitimate cancellations are not automatically punished. Repeated abusive no-shows may be reviewed using private evidence, without public ratings.
Speak up
Report a profile, conversation, or date using Safety & boundaries. Serious concerns enter moderation. You can block a person immediately. Staff can warn, suspend, ban, or restore accounts with recorded reasons and an audit trail.